Nogizaka46 – Naitatte ii ja nai ka?. Lyrics Meaning: It’s Okay to Cry When Life Gets Tough

Why do we feel like we have to stop crying when we grow up? Nogizaka46 dives right into that feeling with this song. It’s a track about the pressure to be strong, even when you’re falling apart inside.

    The Story of a Fading Dream in Nogizaka46’s “Naitatte ii ja nai ka?”

    This song tells a pretty relatable story. It feels like we’re following someone who left their small town for the big city, full of hope. But things didn’t exactly go as planned.

    Big City, Bigger Disappointments

    The song opens with a sense of disillusionment. The city that seemed so glamorous from afar now just feels… far. The person is looking out a train window, thinking about everything that has been lost. It’s a lonely picture.

    Ano hi kawashita yakusoku wa
    Was the promise we made that day
    Wasurerarete shimatta no ka?
    Completely forgotten?
    Hitorigoto wa
    My mumbling to myself
    Dare mo kiitenai
    Is heard by no one

    You can just imagine them standing in a crowded place, feeling completely alone. They question old promises and realize that maybe nobody is listening anymore. It’s a tough pill to swallow.

    The Dusty Guitar

    The most heartbreaking part might be the story of the guitar. It’s a symbol of their past dreams and passions. They brought it with them to the city, ready to make music and share their voice.

    But now? It’s just sitting there, forgotten.

    Jōkyō suru toki
    When I moved to the capital
    Motte kita gitā wa
    The guitar I brought with me
    Yasu apāto no
    Is in a cheap apartment’s
    Oshiire no naka ni hōrikonda mama
    Closet, just tossed inside
    Are kara ichido mo
    Since then, not even once
    Hiiteinai no wa
    Have I played it
    Utaitai koto ga
    Because there’s nothing I want
    Nai kara darō
    To sing about, I guess

    Oof. That hits hard. Giving up on a dream because you feel like you have nothing left to say is one of the saddest parts of growing up sometimes.

    What’s the Real Story Behind “Naitatte ii ja nai ka?”

    The core narrative of this Nogizaka46 tune is about facing the gap between your dreams and reality. It’s the story of someone who learned that life is full of disappointments. They became so used to the pain that they just pushed it down, losing their passion and voice along the way.

    Nogizaka46’s Message: Let It All Out

    So, what’s the point of this sad story? The real message is right in the title: “Isn’t It Okay To Cry?”. The chorus is a powerful wake-up call, asking a question we should all ask ourselves.

    WOW WOW
    WOW WOW
    Bokutachi wa itsu kara
    Since when did we
    Namida o nagasanai no ka?
    Stop shedding tears?
    Osanakatta ano koro yori
    It’s not that we’ve become stronger
    Tsuyoku natta wake ja nai
    Than we were in our childhoods

    Nogizaka46 isn’t just telling a story; they’re giving us permission to feel. The song argues that being an “adult” doesn’t mean you’re stronger or that you don’t feel pain. It often just means you get better at hiding it. The song encourages us to stop pretending and just let ourselves be a little “uncool” and emotional. It’s okay. Really.

    What do you get from this song? Maybe you see a totally different story in the lyrics, and that’s cool too. Let me know what you think!

    Lyrics: "Naitatte ii ja nai ka?" by Nogizaka46


    Nogizaka46 – Naitatte ii ja nai ka? [Lyrics KANJI]


    電車の窓から見てた街は
    こんなに遠かったのか?
    ずっと憧れてたあの人は
    もうどこかへ引っ越したか?
    あの日 交わした約束は
    忘れられてしまったのか?
    独り言は
    誰も聞いてない

    雑誌で見た
    華やかなショウウインドウ
    覗いてた誰かの
    手の跡で汚れてしまったか?
    欲しかったものが
    欲しくなくなるのは
    諦めるより
    不幸だと思う

    夢と現実の
    両方を知って
    落胆に慣れながら
    逞(たくま)しく生きるのが人生だ

    WOW WOW
    僕たちはいつから
    涙を流さないのか?
    幼かったあの頃より
    強くなったわけじゃない
    WOW WOW
    大人になったって
    悲しいことはある
    だけど 歯を食いしばって
    我慢してるけど
    たまには泣いたっていいじゃないか?

    永遠 固く誓った愛は
    こんなに脆(もろ)かったのか?
    忘れないでと言ったあの瞳は
    他の男(ひと) 見てるのか?
    10年後 迎えに来てなんて
    思い上がりに溺れたのか?
    過去と喧騒に
    ため息ついた

    上京する時
    持って来たギターは
    安アパートの
    押入れの中に放り込んだまま
    あれから一度も
    弾いていないのは
    歌いたいことが
    ないからだろう

    傷の治し方
    いつしか覚えて
    痛みなんかどうでもいい
    思いっきり傷つくのが人生だ

    WOW WOW
    僕たちはいつだって
    何を笑っているのか?
    本当は辛いのに
    何をごまかしてるのか?
    WOW WOW
    自分の感情を
    抑えるのは大事か?
    もっと かっこ悪い
    生き方をしよう
    たまには泣いたっていいじゃないか?

    僕たちはいつから
    涙を流さないのか?
    幼かったあの頃より
    強くなったわけじゃない
    WOW WOW
    大人になったって
    悲しいことはある
    だけど 歯を食いしばって
    我慢してるけど
    たまには泣いたっていいじゃないか?

    Nogizaka46 – Naitatte ii ja nai ka? [Lyrics ROMAJI]


    densha no mado kara miteta machi wa
    konna ni tookatta no ka?
    zutto akogareteta ano hito wa
    mou doko ka e hikkoshita ka?
    ano hi kawashita yakusoku wa
    wasurerarete shimatta no ka?
    hitorigoto wa
    daremo kiitenai

    zasshi de mita
    hanayaka na shou uindou
    nozoiteteta dareka no
    te no ato de yogorete shimatta ka?
    hoshikatta mono ga
    hoshiku naku naru no wa
    akirameru yori
    fukou da to omou

    yume to genjitsu no
    ryōhō wo shitte
    rakutan ni narenagara
    takumashiku ikiru no ga jinsei da

    WOW WOW
    bokutachi wa itsu kara
    namida wo nagasanai no ka?
    osanakatta ano koro yori
    tsuyoku natta wake ja nai
    WOW WOW
    otona ni nattatte
    kanashii koto wa aru
    dakedo ha wo kuishibatte
    gaman shiteru kedo
    tama ni wa naitatte ii ja nai ka?

    eien kataku chikatta ai wa
    konna ni morokatta no ka?
    wasurenai de to itta ano hitomi wa
    hoka no hito miteru no ka?
    juunen-go mukae ni kite nante
    omoiagari ni oboreta no ka?
    kako to kensou ni
    tameiki tsuita

    joukyou suru toki
    motte kita gitaa wa
    yasu apaato no
    oshiire no naka ni hourikonda mama
    are kara ichido mo
    hiite inai no wa
    utaitai koto ga
    nai kara darou

    kizu no naoshikata
    itsu shika oboete
    itami nanka dou demo ii
    omoikkiri kizutsuku no ga jinsei da

    WOW WOW
    bokutachi wa itsudatte
    nani wo waratte iru no ka?
    hontou wa tsurai noni
    nani wo gomakashiteru no ka?
    WOW WOW
    jibun no kanjou wo
    osaeru no wa daiji ka?
    motto kakko warui
    ikikata wo shiyou
    tama ni wa naitatte ii ja nai ka?

    bokutachi wa itsu kara
    namida wo nagasanai no ka?
    osanakatta ano koro yori
    tsuyoku natta wake ja nai
    WOW WOW
    otona ni nattatte
    kanashii koto wa aru
    dakedo ha wo kuishibatte
    gaman shiteru kedo
    tama ni wa naitatte ii ja nai ka?

    Nogizaka46 – Naitatte ii ja nai ka? [English translation]


    The town I used to see from the train window,
    was it really this far away?
    That person I’ve always admired,
    have they already moved somewhere else?
    The promise we made that day,
    has it been completely forgotten?
    My silent thoughts,
    no one is listening.

    The dazzling show window
    I saw in a magazine,
    did someone’s handprints,
    from peering in, already stain it?
    When something I used to want
    becomes something I no longer desire,
    I think it’s even sadder
    than just giving up.

    Life is about knowing both
    dreams and reality,
    getting used to disappointment,
    and living strong and resiliently.

    WOW WOW
    Since when have we
    stopped shedding tears?
    It’s not like we’ve become any stronger
    than when we were little kids.
    WOW WOW
    Even though we’ve become adults,
    there are still sad things that happen.
    But even if we grit our teeth
    and try to endure it,
    isn’t it totally okay to cry sometimes?

    The love we firmly swore for eternity,
    was it really this fragile?
    Those eyes that told me “Don’t forget me,”
    are they looking at someone else now?
    “Come pick me up in ten years,”
    did I drown in such overconfidence?
    To the past and its clamor,
    I just sighed.

    The guitar I brought
    when I moved to Tokyo,
    it’s still just tossed
    inside the closet of my cheap apartment.
    The reason I haven’t played it
    even once since then
    is probably because there’s nothing
    I want to sing about anymore.

    Somehow, I’ve learned
    how to heal my wounds,
    so pain doesn’t really matter anymore.
    Life is all about getting hurt completely.

    WOW WOW
    What are we always
    laughing about?
    Even though it’s genuinely painful,
    what are we trying to hide?
    WOW WOW
    Is it really important
    to suppress our own emotions?
    Let’s try living a life
    that’s a little less cool,
    isn’t it totally okay to cry sometimes?

    Since when have we
    stopped shedding tears?
    It’s not like we’ve become any stronger
    than when we were little kids.
    WOW WOW
    Even though we’ve become adults,
    there are still sad things that happen.
    But even if we grit our teeth
    and try to endure it,
    isn’t it totally okay to cry sometimes?

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